I actually know two people who adopted because they were having difficulties, then got pregnant with their "second" child after the adoption. They weren't "trying" anymore. They weren't stressed about it. And so it happened.
Which actually segues into another thought, you two could always have one of your own, then if you start menopause adopt a second. There are so many babies out there who could use a pair of loving people like you two.
(((Ali)))
Happy 2010!
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
