The C said not until at least 6 months have passed since the D being final. They need time to process it and heal themselves. W has decided to disregrad this. I can't do anything about that. But I made my feelings known and I looked into if there was anything I could to keep my kids from having that done to them.
Well then, better hurry up and get divorced to start the 6 month clock ticking, because she is NOT going to stop seeing her "friend."
Everybody hurts. It's part of life. Don't miss the good stuff.