Kevin she is acting and living like you are divorced. It doesnt matter what the courts say.
It sux. Believe me. We get it!
That is why we have BEGGED you to DETACH. To LET GO! The sooner you realize that you are not in CONTROL of her ACTIONS the better. Until you make a formal arrangement in court you have NO say. I would suggest you get a custody agreement established in court so, like me, and countless others your rights can start being DEFENDED.