Husband picked up daughter from school, where I work, and said he was taking her to the diner. I was shocked and said hesitantly "ok". He said he didn't know what I had planned. I said I made lasagna, and he said ok, fine. I guess meaning he was going to bring her home. Am I crazy for wanting to know if he had planned to take her out ahead of time? I mean I know it all comes down to communication, which we are not doing, but still...
Also, still waiting to hear advice on how to compete...
I know I've been posting a lot. I'm feeling very confused and alone and I don't know what to do or where to turn. Tonight husband took off his wedding ring while sitting on the couch, purposely put it on the table, rubbed his finger and then put it back on. That was the first time in 6 years he's done that. It's like he's trying to hurt me on purpose. I just pretended not to notice.
Please... any advice or words of encouragement are much needed right now.
To compete, let go, detach, become independently happy, have a great life, make yourself feel good, quit basing your choices based on assumption's about H's reactions. Do what is right for you right now.
H's ring stunt is passive aggressive. He is trying to provoke you into being a b*tch to justify his actions. Ignore it.
Thank you OT. I have been doing very well at that, going out, keeping myself busy, etc. Lastnight he said he was taking daughter to dinner. I made sure when he got home I wasn't home and didn't say anything about where I went. I keep hearing from my friends and family how strong I'm being and how good I'm doing. It just doesn't always feel like that.
Well I guess it's official. H came home today after being gone since Thursday, most probably with the OW, and his wedding ring was off. Ugh this really hurts.
