"Next step is to figure out a way to try to seduce her without coming off as trying to seduce her."
Hmmmm... Not sure why you think this is a good approach. I personally like a strong, confident, purposeful manly seduction. Who wouldn't?
What is NOT at all enticing is a NEEDY, tentative, sneaky approach in which it seems a man is trying to trick you into being horny or seduced. The DREADED "accidental" brush of the breast or inner thigh during a backrub is a prime example here....
