Gucci and Puppy, well Puppy I haven't read much of Gucci is great for standard infidelity.

MLC? Not so much, that's why they don't post here.

Confronting the OW/OM is generally not a good idea... file under pursuing.

Each situation IS differnet.

Blaming them for making the LBS confront the OW?

You control your own actions. You no one else. Take responsibility for both good AND bad actions on your part.
Something Puppy would agree with. : )


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