OK, that can certainly be construed as something going on between them; but it's also not concrete proof of an affair, either.

You can do as you feel, but I think you're going to inflame the situation and not make much progress. He won't admit to an A.

Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."