I realized over time that my W did not have it in her to do the work required to rebuild our M. She was wanting back to "save face". Pride, selfishness and stubborness was very strong in her. I suppose, I turned into the WAH.
I hear that. It's true what they say about TRUST. Once it's gone it's hard to get back. Especially when the lies kept coming. I didnt know where to start believeing her again. Still dont. Without TRUST you have NOTHING. You either are born with the internal strength or not.