You have no evidence to the contrary. You are only speculating on HER behavior. A little fantasy in your head perchance?
I don't have definitely proof. You are correct. But it definitely looks like more than just friendship when you take into account the amount of daily phone calls and time spent on the phone at all hours, him having met W's family and friends, him coming up for a visit and meeting and spending time with W and my girls 2 days in a row. And as is always said on here, believe nothing you hear and only 50% of what you see when it comes to the WAS.
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It's a good sign she is telling you these things. She is either trying to make you jealous or still hurt you. Regardless of the motivation she is still ATTACHED to you. Whether it's ATTACHMENT through LOVE or HATE it is still ATTACHMENT. It will piss her off even more if you DONT REACT EMOTIONALLY and just say "You know how I feel...PERIOD"
PMA, you could knock me over with a feather on this one. My W is ATTACHED to me? You are kidding me right? What in the world would lead you to believe that? She avoids me at all costs unless it is something special to do with the girls for their sake. She knew her "friend" visiting the girls would get back to me and she knew how I would feel about it as I have made it known in the past pertaining to this guy a few months ago, so she had no choice but to talk about it.
I don't see attachment here so much as more of manipulation on her part to try and pull this off.
I could be wrong. You definitely stunned me with that POV.
Kevin
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Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...