You can say whatever you want, but your actions shout louder than your words.
Again, I understand that you want to protect your kids, and there is nothing wrong with that. However, there are things that go beyond 'protection' and this is one of them.
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As far as talking to the C. Again this is not about control so much as what do I do now about what my W has chosen to involve my girls in
You already expressed to you STBXW how you felt about this. End of story with her in that respect. If you need to continue to work on this, then you work on this with your C and your kids, not by trying to insert yourself into the C session between your STBXW and your kids.
My direct challenge to you was to go get those books, read them and understand them, while looking at yourself at the same time in context of them.
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."
