Boy, havent had much time to get on the boards. Its amazing how much more time you have when your H is out of the house and you are alone. H just left for work after long holiday weekend.
We had an awesome weekend with a great b-day dinner for me at a restaurant with band and dancing. I did ask over dinner about where he actually would meet the OW after work. Boy, that was a very touchy subject.He told me about two little bars in our suburban area he would go to with her. It took me by surprise that he would meet her so close to home. Some of my anger surfaced and I made a comment that I didnt think you "soil your home territory". Not a good move on my part but did recover and have nice rest of evening.
I have come to conclusion that I am not going to be able to ask him about the A much at all. This is going to be kinda hard for me (naturally nosey person) but he does not like controversy/negative emotions. I am going to have to heal without the specifics. My marriage is more important than knowing. And, it is still very early in the game and I must keep everytning positive.
