Originally Posted By: luvless
I know he has a drinking problem but I am not focusing on that right now. I feel it's his problem first before it is mine so I cannot fix that for him.


You are right; he's not going to decide to fix it himself, either.

Gnosis is correct -- do some research on how to handle a spouse's drinking problem. Here would be a good place to start:

http://www.al-anon.alateen.org/

Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."