I wrote out my goals for 2009 here last year. They revolved around my personal goals and getting our marriage back on solid ground. When I worked on my goals, business plan and family plans for 2010 I came to a realization that I need to honor for myself. We have a busy and full year ahead of us that covers a lot of ground that needs my full attention.

What I realised is that when I look thru my plans is that the time and energy I spend on DB is counterproductive to my other goals. I am going to curtail the time I spend here to help me achieve my other goals. I never expected to be a "vet" here, I never thought I would get to a hundred posts. laugh This forum is a valuable tool for getting thru one of the most difficult periods in your life. I am grateful for what I have learned, the friends I have made and the support given to me here.

I will still check in and lurk. I will still pray for all of you. The Greek and I are being sponsored by our Diocese to attend Retro and become counselors so that it will be available in our area. I will continue to give back.

I appreciate you all more than you could know. Strength and Honor mates.

Cheers
Coach

ps You can handle it.


M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.