Mish, that is exactly what I've been saying thus far, It can't be an instant thing, especially for the boys, but also for her and me. It also just flat out illogical.
But she wants to hear none of it. So much to threaten that if it doesn't happen instantly, then in her opinion, this will neveer work. Kind of like a jump back with me or lose me forever type attitude? She has point blank said, I need you, I've lived long enough with out and all the things you want to hear after all this, but in a very demanding, 4 year old laying on the floor of store temper tantrum becasue they didn't get that shiney new toy that caught their eye.
uggh, I'm so confused. I poised to stand my ground and keep with my rationale, but it's just working for her and really pissing her off. I swear, it's just "me, me, me" all over again but 1,000 times worse, utilizing "us, us, us" and piss on everyone else.
This is making my head ache.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
She has point blank said, I need you, I've lived long enough with out and all the things you want to hear after all this, but in a very demanding, 4 year old laying on the floor of store temper tantrum becasue they didn't get that shiney new toy that caught their eye. 
