It sounds like she doesn't like to be alone, i.e. can't function without a man in her life. I would let her know that you want to take things slow and bulid a solid foundation. There were issues before OM and I think those things need to be worked on.

I am wishing you the best and you are so right not to rush in.

kat


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S24, S21, D18, D17
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