hey, my holidays were great thank you! cept the part where my husband puked in my truck. yes, sad huh. thankfully most of it fell on his pants... then he almost fell face first down my moms stairs!! obviously he is not holding his alcohol well! lol
NIIIIICE! LoL How was he the next day? Lots of Motrin?
Originally Posted By: S.T. _I Made It!
as for your boundaries, I'd like to hear them, if you would share. you've been in this part of the sitch for a while, and if you feel ready to step it up, then go for it. (along with the flirting too.
ST, we just had a really good break w/the kids, and H being home most of it. We had a superb last few days, and have really enjoyed our time as a family.
With that said, H relies on me to be his "best friend." He talks and talks and talks to me, but will NOT EVER bring up us, or how he really feels, etc... He just... talks. So, the boundary I want to set w/his phone (which, the more I type, the more it seems silly because he's always had it close at hand) is for me. I need to feel some security here. I need to feel like I shouldn't be second guessing... And, if he can't accommodate my feelings regarding it, he's getting nothing but silence from me, if we're not relating about the kids.
Between the exercise, naturopath assistance w/metabolism, some great podcasts I'm listening to from my pastor, and some confidence in overcoming my fear, I'm going to get somewhere. I just hope it's where I'd like to be.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
