Coming up on One-Year of DB'ing...

[mindfull]

OK, folks... H passed first litmus test. G gave me an idea to see if he is GLUED to the phone. He passed w/flying colors.

Well, really I think it's time to decide whether you are content for things to remain as they are. Because if you are not, you are the one who is going to have to do something about it.

Jeff, I am. I am slowly gaining some confidence. I can't do it all at once. The above mentioned test was a huge step for me. I feared not, and stepped up. He passed...

Next step to happen sometime this week...

"H, I realize your phone is important to you for work (and it is, 24-hours - he has to deal w/them..., but considering the shaky ground we've been on, it makes me suspicious when you keep such close tabs on it, thus deteriorating my trust in you.

I need you to help me w/this, and keep it out in the open. If not, that shows me you don't really care how I feel, so I'll take that into consideration when you're wanting to just "talk, hang out, etc..."

Short, clear, calm and to the point.

H has ALWAYS kept the phone ON him, and needed to do so because of his drivers. However, it's ever so slightly "out of touch/sight" more often. He's not on it, hardly at all, so I don't think he's necessarily dying for communication w/someone, but I think there could be stuff on there he's not willing to share or have me see.