Quote: My sitch was much the same as Stupidfoolishwife posted. I warned H about OW the first time I met her. Got many of the same responses...not my type,too obnoxious etc.
I, too, had a "sense" when I first met ow...so did all the other wives in our "group". We weren't comfortable with it at all but all the h's told us that we just "didn't understand" her presence, her way of interacting, etc.
Quote: My question is...how come we women are better at not crossing the boundary line? Maybe I should clarify that by saying "married" women. Then there is the question of why do some women make it a point/habit of actively pursuing married men?
Well...in my case ow IS married...to a guy who worked at the same place as she does, h did, all the friends did. ow's h seemed completely oblivious to the whole thing...
I would LOVE to know more about the steps/stages that happened with h and ow. It would go SO FAR towards comforting me...towards knowing that he SEES the dividing line between OK and not OK.
Sage
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