Yeah she did chase me for a bit. Only because I found out her boyfriend had cheated on her. But then again she ran right back to him. I have been way too nice, getting stepped on all over me taking the responsiblity with my kids only while she kept doing what she was doing.

We always fought on who was going to have custody of the kids. Yesterday when she picked them up she showed up to my place with her boyfriend. That was the last straw, I told her I give in and throwing the towel.

If you think your the better parent, and have a better living facility then me for them, then take them.

I also told her, I'm taking her off my car insurance and I give her this week to find insurance.

I never said I wouldn't provide for my kids. I do, she wants them full time, I never wanted her to do so. I'm there for them all the time.

These are my 180's and I still want to DB. But I thought long and hard about this. If she really wants to be a single parent. I have to give her responsiblity of a single parent and bills of a single parent. I still don't want a divorce, love and miss her and my kids. Let's see how this month goes. And today I start my new job.


Me:27
W:24
S:2
D:9 months
M:3 years
Together for 8 years
Bombed : 6/11/09
Moved out: 6/27/09
Found out about her affair 9/7/09
(she started her's at 6/25/09)
Begged n plead 7/25/09
started DB 8/17/09