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I always hear that in 2 to 5 years the WAS regrets their actions.


This is pretty true. I'm seeing it in my xh now. He's actually using words that express that he now knows what he did was wrong, the choices he made were huge mistakes and he's miserable. Karma is a real PITA sometime. smile

All you can do is what is best for you without bringing too much damage to the kids. As long as you handle the D with honor and integrity like you have the rest of this then your kids will adjust very well to their new circumstances.


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!