Who says it has to be a custody battle? Are you thinking about full custody? Unless she objects you can make your custody and visitation the same as what you have now. So unless you think that by you filing for D will piss her off and push her to try and take your girls, then I don't see what you have to worry about.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
