he works for same company as my W. He is 8 years older than my W, and is 2 years older than me. He has sent her pics of himself and his son. He is a regional mgr for the same company, he lives and works in the dallas area, and visits our base weekly to check on the "projects". This is how they initially met. What if anything should I do with this info? I am sure there is a policy prohibiting their relationship, as this company is VERY prominent on ALL military bases. Also it is common knowledge that my W is married, and he knows this as well.
I would expose them, via a letter sent to their Human Resources department. I did this with my wife, and although the gym ended up taking no action, they at least talked to my wife and her OM, and I do think it caused them to at least "cool it" while at work. I just felt it was the right thing to do.
