More info on my sitch. W thinks that divorce will be fine for the kids. She says we don't have to do it like every other couple does. She wants me to have 50% of kids, wants me to be able to keep all my business assets (over 150k of paid for tools/eq.) She wants me to get at least half of our other assets. She says that she loves me more than she loves the kids and that she wants to be my best friend. I tell her that she is confused and that ilybinilwy is a way to say that you care for me, but you aren't excited about me anymore. I told her that if she loves me so much, she should be able point out at least one thing that she did in the past 2 weeks that showed me love. I went home to watch the kids this morning and I find a note saying to hang a shelf in d's room and change light bulb in garage. I want to write note back saying I am here to watch kids, not to be your handy man. I am extremely easy going, and am not real decisive. I feel that this may be part of why the bomb was dropped in the first place. Do I need to be firm about this, or will I just come off looking like an ahole?
me 31 her 31 ilybinilwy 10-2-09 i moved out 12-13-09 boy 7 girl 3 boy 16 months
