upside you have come so far and are so close you can do it- what snodderly says If you dont see it though you wont know for sure it isnt a waste of time you can always move on at any time if you can fins a way to hold on it may work better than planned b/c U wouldnt want H back if he is not totally done I think this is a situation where trust ing yourself comes in meditate listen either way you will be ok and a winner peace
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