The only contact I made with him yesterday was about returning the kids at a certain time so I can take them to church.
I've reread this thread from the beginning and I'm realizing that I believe my M is dead. I don't think DBing was wrong, just too late. My WAH has moved on it seems.
Found it odd (not seeing hope in this) that he told S that his living sitch is not temporary anymore, but that to not say "never say never" about getting back home again. Not fair for the kids. They did lay a huge guilt trip on him this weekend about the sitch and he forced them to sleep over. They are starting to get angry and rejecting with him, but thankfully very easy going with me. I keep telling them that their happiness is most important for me and how much I love them.
I appreciate all the help I've been getting here. I think I might have needed a few more 2x4s to see that my M is dead though. He's moved on...
M40, H39 M17 T20 D13, S12 H moved out 05/09 D filed 1/10
They did lay a huge guilt trip on him this weekend about the sitch and he forced them to sleep over. They are starting to get angry and rejecting with him, but thankfully very easy going with me. I keep telling them that their happiness is most important for me and how much I love them.
