Looking for help with WAW

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W emailed me last night telling me she is taking her name off joint accounts for our bills today. She's been saying that for over a month now but I guess today is the day. She also wants to meet this week to discuss dividing our things. W also asked if I wanted to schedule a joint counseling session with my IC to discuss our separation and divorce to bring closure. Wish me happy new year and holiday and hoped I was well. What? Is she serious? Hope I am well?

We've only been seprated for a little over two months and she continues to move away from our marraige so fast. I don't get it.

She is reconnecting with about 20 old high school friends through FB for the past couple of weeks. Could this be a sign of MLC?

She seems so confident on her decision to end the marraige as she is moving so quickly. If I continue NC will she ever come back to reality? I'm hoping her heart will soften and she will see what a huge mistake she is making.

She emailed earlier yesterday and I didn't reply. Her email last night was a bit more aggravated, probably because I didn't contact her back right away. I feel like ignoring her email and continue NC. I know she will probably continue to email me and probably call me about these things she wants.

Wouldn't it be good that she start to show some anger? I feel like she has been in fantasy land since she has left and this fantasy world she has created is so perfect in her mind. I'm thinking that maybe some anger on her part might actually bring her back to reality adn show some honest emotions?

Any advice?