Upon returning home last night my W wants to talk about guidelines for how our R is going to go from here. She wants clear explanations of how different things are going to work around the house.(i.e. bills, housework, taking care of S3, etc.) I feel that she wants this b/c her world is spinning. I have delayed for now by validating her feelings and saying I needed time to think about it. I feel that she is looking for ways to control the sitch. Any ideas on keeping the sitch fuzzy?
Or am I off base? Just tell me. Thanks.
"The first step in the acquisition of wisdom is silence, the second listening, the third memory, the fourth practice, the fifth teaching others." Solomon Ibn Gabriol