Why can't I just do it!?

[AliSuddenly]

Hi Trixie.. wow, I cant believe the latest.. I agree with the above person, I was following along then thinking yes, finally you have some power and you are making him think, making him feel the true weight of his decision (that he has left physically if not quite mentally).. and then, bit by bit, he reeled you back in and then... backed off again.

It would be interesting to see what happened if you REALLY followed through on being done, even if you dont quite file, if you see what I mean If you had said, ok, I give up exepcting you to come back, you are off the hook.. and then DIDNT HANG OUT WITH HIM OR ML !!! Do you think you could try that as an interim measure instead of filing? You must see that you are prolonging the limbo by giving him this control and letting him pick you up and drop you?

He said himself, he is most afraid of losing you.. well he hasnt yet has he? How would he react if you didnt let him reel you back in until you see the veil lift from his eyes? Its true what they say, you know when they have 'turned' because that closed, guarded look drops from their eyes and they are back in the room...

Al xx