New Year, New Goals, New Life

[AliSuddenly]

Hey Bobbi.. Happy New Year! And thanks for the tip.. I saw some in the shop here, but they were super expensive! I might get then though, hey its for an important reason..

So I put her in my bed and came back out. Dan was back asleep!? I debated waking him again or not, and I went and iced my back instead...

...Bobbi how would you/will you feel when Dan no longer is lying asleep in your house when you come home? That instead of seeing him for 12 days straight.. you might not see him at all for 2 weeks and only then for a child handover, becuase thats how it will be presumably, one day.. at the monment you dont have to face that reality, because he's still very much in your life (just not in a R way!) and you know deep down that you can 'rely' on him being around like this, like a ghost drifting around your life.

Do you think he's in MLC? Someone once said to me, MLCers are different and need consistency, never turn them away.. or not? Do you think he's done? Really? Or not? What does your intuition tell you?

What could you have done differently above? Could you have said, why are you here? Thanks for settling Sydney, but you are divorcing me, therefore its probably not appropriate that you choose to sleep in my house, especially without asking permission...

I know you talked about it here a bit and read all the workbooks... but you never really did set proper boundaries with Dan, let go and made him feel the true weight of his decision.

I say this becuase I've always been so damn curious as to what might have happened if you did!

Al xxx