Hi everyone, actually DBing worked for me after my S had a EA progressing to PA with a work colleague. we actually managed to begin to pull it together, drfited apart for a while and were pulling it back together very well. I can speak very positively of DBing.
However, in the late stages of our R process, I met someone and have an infatuation with them. I met them at a bar, have been to lunch and generally this OW seems a lot more attractive right now.
This is a problem because part of my DBing approach was to commit to saving the M at all cost.
I barely know this new person and logic tells me I am in the infatuation stage but there's a reason they call infatuation 'love sick' isn't there?
any advice???
-------- Me; 38 W; 34 1 4yr old S Married 4.5 yrs, together 9 yrs Bomb; 15 June 2007 Holiday together Sept 2008; My Dad dies Nov 2008; reconcliation fails Nov 2008