Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[SoldierDad]

Well,

I am starting to see the light-at least I think I am.

I have decided to finally start detaching in a healthy, loving way.

It is extremely difficult because I want her to come to her senses. I now know that she has to do that on her own terms, and time.

I want her to end her A, but again, it isn't up to me.

Nothing has changed in my sitch, I am still headed towards D, and that is what I am going with. Everything we talked about before I left-is just that-TALK.

I can't EXPECT her to do the work, she has to WANT to. I have to accept this.

I have to KNOW that no matter what happens, I WILL BE OK. I also struggle with this.

I am a good person, and a good Father, whatever happens between my W and I has no bearing on those things.