I've seen the drawings with Ed, XW, myself and both kids in the picture.
Here is the advice the guy I work for gave me which is similar to M in Tennessee...
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As disgusting and frustrating as the entire thing is, I would try extremely hard not to let the title bother you nor fight it. I would just try to get them to call him Ed around you so "you" don't get confused… even if you wouldn't. Your real title may feel a bit challenged today, but it won't be for long as they soon will be old enough for it to start bugging them all on their own. In the end, nothing will diminish your real role as their dad and thus to stay true to the title, you can't let what Ed is "titled" bother you... its simply not true and never will be.
Your XW is terrible.. what a nightmare... no mother should ever allow such a hurtful thing to happen.
