you remind me of - ME!!! I have been hit with many 2x4's lately from the experts on this board.
You, as well as I, have to STOP worrying about what our W's are doing.
Lovingly detach AS. As hard as it is, you have to do it. I struggle with it every day.
STOP trying to figure out what she has said/done, it is just going to drive you crazy-take it from me-I KNOW!!!
Get busy, go to the gym, get your mind off of her, and what she is doing. Even if she IS doing something-is there ANYTHING you can do about it? NOPE, not a thing.
Let Go and Let GOD my fellow Warrior.
"embrace the suck" - Coach "don't go all "Melty Man" on us" - Puppy Let Go and Let God Finally "Got It" - 15 Jan 2010