I haven't done any more dating, the more profiles I read, the more I realize that there are a lot fewer "potentials" than I thought at first. Some level of intelligence is pretty important. And I would like to think that people are putting their best foot forward in their profile. So, I'm being a little bit picky. I know there are possibilities out there, though I think I might find them in unexpected places.
Have patience Grasshopper. She is out there.
Tucson, AZ for 2009...
Population 525,529
2,663 humanoids per square mile
Males: 48.78% Females: 51.22%
Married: 48.00% Single: 52.00%
Divorced: 12.98%
Just a guess, as I am lacking additional telemetry, but there are probably at least a thousand single ladies in your age range within your area. Maybe 500 more if you can speak fluent Spanish.