Your right. I should not help her move. I guess my problem is that I want to believe her.
The EA could also be an old girlfriend but still an EA. I just don't have any proof that she is lying.
I will take your advice to heart and simply go dark. It's all I can do at this point. As far as 180s, and GALing. Im a doing that now. But I am having a hard time detaching. This will be easier once she is out of my home.
I don't have my DB book yet so most of what I am doing I learn from here and lifetwo.com. Thanks all. Ill keep posting any progress or otherwise.
Me:48 W:55 M:22 T:23 Bomb:19Nov09 S:15Jan10 D:11Feb10 EA:Confirmed on 20Apr10 Fast track to her divorcing me