WL, the A will end and then you will have to deal with the drug use. That will be harder IMO.

About other women not being interested in a man with kids...where are you getting your info?! I have 3 very attractive and interesting female friends who all married men with kids! One has a daughter from her first marriage. If you get to that point, you might just open your pool to older women (like 30-34?) or to other divorced women with kids.

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004