What can I do to save my marriage? Help

[Sleepy]

Today my W became suspicious about my phone and computer activity. I spent a lot of time recovering from my all nighter in my BR but she would pop in to my room and ask what I was doing. She pressed me to check the phone but I refused. I told her it is no business to her and was private.

I am detatching. This is what I have to do.

I went up to my sons room and we watched cartoons together. I fell asleep. Next thing I know she came up there and started cleaning up the room. I get a sense that she is following me around. After she woke me up, I stayed there a little then left and then went downstairs with my kids.

I will not let her know about this site. It has helped me so much. She asked if I was surfing Porno. I couldn't stay dark on that comment. I cracked up and so did she.

It looks like detachment is the way to go. I have the livestrong article and carry it with me. That is my next goal to maintain.