Any tips to deal with Jealousy on my part

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Well she is all packed up. I was planning on taking the day off to help her move. Most people are telling me not to help her but I disagree.

I want her to see me as the good guy during the move before I go grey or black. Still waiting on my darn DB book to arrive.

From what I can tell, she is in fact having an EA with somebody over the phone / internet (listented to her talk to this person). But I see no evidence of any current or past PA. Still scares that crap out of me thinking that it's possible.

The person she is having an EA with may not even be male (not that this matters). I just don't know. Not knowing is torture for me. She is very convincing when she assures me that there is nobody. But from what I read here, WAW's and MLC wifes can be good liars. I really want to believe her. All I can do is give her the benefit of doubt.

She has been acting a bit strange this weekend. She spent all day cleaning the kitchen and oven etc. I told her she didnt have to bother with that. Ironically, in the 20 years we lived there, the place never looked that clean.