Originally Posted By: ytjuy
I know this is a legal question that I will cover with my lawyer in the morning again, but what are peoples thoughts on abandonment/leaving the house?


My thoughts are, talk to your lawyer.

Explain to her that your wife is trying to have the best of both worlds: if you go, she wants to accuse you of abandoning her; if you stay, she wants to force you out by accusing you of abuse.

Your lawyer should be able to advise you of the best course of action.


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."