Zoo, you're ideas do make a lot of sense. Iknow for sure that recreating that beginning of a relationship feeling is very powerfull. ANd I do know that it played a role in both of my h's affairs.
Your saving grace in the case of your friend was the same as mine LOL we have many miles between us and an ocean.. neither of us is that good a swimmer LOL Still I didn't really feel that tempted. I feel great being able to talk to him and we do help each other during rough times, but there was never - on my part or on his up to now - any confusion with our feelings of friendship only. ANywa gotta go now, be back later. nighshade
"Each and every one of us is deserving of a kind word, a gentle thought and the gift of understanding. "