Any tips to deal with Jealousy on my part

[newmama]

figured that an OM would make sense since I could not comprehend her just simply "falling out of love" with me. And her secretive phone calls and facebook thing is what set me off and sparked my suspicions.

You are correct. Unfortunately many many As have one or both of these components in common.

But she may be going throught the midlife change and may very well feel that she does in fact no longer love me.

During the time she is with OM she probably feels this way but it is not permanent!

Once she moves out in two weeks I will go gray and stop persueing.
Its just too hard not to persue while she is living in the same home as me right now.

I do know for a fact that it is hard to not pursue while she is there, BUT I strongly suggest you take one day at a time and give yourself a goal each day related to being gone or being distracted or not appearing sad...you will feel so good about yourself if you do any or all of these things NOW. It will help you prepare for when she leaves, too. In fact, maybe she needs help packing? You could box up some of her stuff for her without her asking.

((g450))