Hang in there. Feelings/emotions are neither right or wrong. They just are.
And detachment does not mean you have no emotion for your W. That's indifference.
Detachment is imagining the worst case scenario, going there, really living it, breathing it in realizing that despite that awful situation, you will be ok.
Detachment actually means detaching from the eventual outcome. It's not ridding yourself of any emotion towards your W.
So, like a soldier who accepts that he is "already dead" to allow him to act like a soldier in combat, once you detach, in the true sense of the word, then you can begin to act properly.
