Mixed Signals or is this Limbo Land

[MHL]

Okay, Get out your 2 X 4's I am actually embarrassed to write this but I need to be honest, so I can get honest feedback.
I had a huge, big, gigantic backslide late last night.

I am ready for bed, S9 out like a light and D13 still up. It is midnite and I jump on facebook for an instant and what is in my face but a picture just taken of my W with her arms wrapped around some guy in a local bar, knew the bar immediately from the background. One of the ladies she went out with loves to post pics of where she is at and who she is with when she is out. I can't believe she posted this on FB for all to see. I happened to jump on FB 3 minutes after she posted it, yep you guessed it, I got dressed jumped in car and went up there.

Caught her lip locked with this guy in the middle of this packed bar in front 2 of my neighbors and tried to get her to leave no good she was drunk and she broke down in tears big scene. Bottom line everyone left and she ended up spending the night with the neighbor across the street instead of her place b/c she could not drive. I don't know at that point if I messed up or whether I did good.

This morning gut wrenching, skipped church b/c up til 2:30am with all the BS, D13 was up, saw the whole thing, pic too. I saved it on computer before it was pulled down. Hate missing church but I was wiped and so was D13.

Here is the positive in this whole mess. W and I talked big R talk today 3 different times on phone, no hang ups, no raised voices but we talked about separation agreement and getting her Lawyer off my back and we would figure it out and get him to draft the agreement, said I would sign it done. Also talked about things in the past and where we are now and then the possibility of trying to work on the M. She is thinking about it and admitted some wrong doing on her part in the whole sitch. I was man enough to tell her that she screwed up her R with D13 that it was not my fault she knows everything. I further said there would not be anything to know if she had not been screwing around with guy in town. Of course I said all this in a calm tone of voice and she did not hang up or disagree. We talked more today than we had in the last 4 months.

Good? Bad? bring on the 2X4's, I'm going to bed. I'll wake up and count the knots on my head in the morning.