I would definitely not put yourself in that position. cause it doesn't matter if he has one or not. the goal is still the same.

so, again, do you think your H could have possibly felt that you were not reciprocating his attempts to connect last weekend, or whatever day it was? do you think his LL is acts of service? and what services did you do for him during that time?


my thought is your H was trying to reconnect then, and for some reason wasn't feeling it was reciprocated, or if there is an OW, she is really confusing him and he has no clue what he really wants.

and yes, what he said is typical behavior. He is looking for FEELINGs and that's not love. so if he does have an OW, he's getting a feeling in similar to a high, so this is going to be hard for him because the feelings will confuse him.

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."