Well here's my story. Been with my wife for 14 years, married for the last 8. We have 3 wonderful children and 2 very demanding jobs. I am self employed in construction and she is assistant ceo of a hospital.
The bomb was dropped in early oct that she was no longer in love with me and that their was nothing I could do to change her mind. Initially I went throught all the begging, pleading, crying, asking her how she could do this to the kids ect. ect.
When the bomb was dropped, It was like a woke up from some sort of hazy existince here on earth that I called my life. Since then I began to read about mars and venus, did the light her fire program. and signed up for every councelors email that I could find. 3 weeks ago I moved into a vacant house that we have, began eating right, exercising, and really feeling good about myself.
To be honest, their is nothing more that I want than to be with my wife and children, but I also realize that this may be possible. I am truly o.k with however this situation turns out, but I am hopeful for a reconcilliation.
Last edited by digger22; 01/04/1001:56 AM.
me 31 her 31 ilybinilwy 10-2-09 i moved out 12-13-09 boy 7 girl 3 boy 16 months
