Hi Nightshade,

I have read your posts to Optimist and think you really offer some good advice. I am afraid I just hadn't taken the time to catch up on your thread.

BUT, since you have started a new one!

Hello, and I think you give good advice!

You made a really good point I think with your post here, helps me understand a bit how my H ended up like he did.

I also think after reading your post to Sage we probably have some of the same personality traits. Not sure if those are good or bad.

Actually just traits, it's what you do with them that counts.

OK, I'm just rambling along.

So Hello and Goodbye.


Pam

"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned
so as to have the life that is waiting for us"