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[hoosiermama]

I'll look for that. Can't say I've come across anything about narcissistic dad/adolescent daughter dynamics, but it might be out there. I have a feeling that she's beginning to see that he's got the issue, that it's not her fault for being "unlovable" or something. But I don't know if that ultimately makes a difference.

She has a wonderful godfather who has stepped up to the plate, and I have a cousin nearby who's a high school teacher who has had some great conversations with D13. Trying to find some strong, stable, and safe men to give her good examples.

Anyone else had any experience in dealing with dads who have obviously chosen OW over their daughters, and how they've helped their daughters deal?