Hi newmama, yes NC is the goal - I can't deal with him any longer - I had put my hopes up in Oct / Nov - we got on so well and since the mortgage fight I just lost any hope of any R ever - and since he admitted the "tenant" story to be a lie too - he says he lied so I wouldn't think he left me for another woman because other women had nothing to do with our separation - I told him if I find out in the future that there was another woman before her I don't know what I will do - he is putting me through living hell for these past 8 months - I don't know if he is realizing that.
I will continue posting, I promise - I am just so sad - I was never so heartbroken in my life, ever...