Mishka. That's what I'm afraid of and I'm going to have to talk to the attorney about that. Here's my thought. If at the very, very least I get joint physical custody and then we are just splitting expenses and there's no child support, I can live with that. That's $370 a check I wouldn't have to turn over.

There's always bankruptcy. I have my place to live and my car and I'm on my credit union board of directors so when I need a loan in the future I think I'll be OK.

Really, the one thing, the ONE THING that is giving me pause is having to explain to the girls why it was me who filed.

In a way, isn't that proof I'm doing the right thing? That I'm only willing to stay in limboland for the sake of the girls.


Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11
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