Any tips to deal with Jealousy on my part

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I hear ya HHIF. And Im glad you are at least still together.

Ironcally I really hid my jealousy so it was not really an issue during our 22 year marriage. In fact, I really wasn't jealouse at all until now.

This only recently started with the bomb being dropped. I figured that an OM would make sense since I could not comprehend her just simply "falling out of love" with me. And her secretive phone calls and facebook thing is what set me off and sparked my suspicions.

But she may be going throught the midlife change and may very well feel that she does in fact no longer love me.

I guess Im just having a hard time coming to terms with this.

Once she moves out in two weeks I will go gray and stop persueing. Its just too hard not to persue while she is living in the same home as me right now.

We will see what happens when we are separated. Wish me luck.